Oftentimes flirting is considered superficial and false. But what most people fail to realise is that nothing could be further from the truth. A revent study identified five types of flirting behavior based on responses from more than 5,000 adults from the ages of 19 with an average age of 39 years of age. These people were all single at the time. In this article we will show you the 5 types of flirting and then go into other dating tips to make you love life wonderful.
The five types of flirting you msut apply are listed below:
Physical: People who scored high on this type often develop relationships quickly, have more sexual chemistry and have a greater emotional and sexual connection to their partners.
Traditional: These believe men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. Both men and women with this style tend to be introverted.
Polite: The focus is on proper manners and nonsexual communication.
Sincere: The style most often cited in the study. Relationships involve strong emotional connections and sexual chemistry and are typically meaningful; they are based on creating emotional connections.
Playful: People favoring the playful style often flirt with little interest in a long-term romance, but they find flirting fun and enhancing to their self-esteem. They are less likely to have important and meaningful relationships and this is the type that is most uncommon.
Join an online dating service. It's a fact that there are more men on these services than women. So, if you're a woman looking for a man, join up! Some of the big ones will let you in completely free simply because you're a woman! You will be deluged in messages from interested men. Just remember, beware giving out personal identifying information, never fall for sob stories from poor men far away who need you to give them money, and if you agree to meet, meet somewhere public and busy. Consider having a "play phone" - get a cheap or spare cell phone on a cheap plan, so you can give out its phone number while you're meeting strangers. If you find a stalker, simply get a new number. Your corporate phone on your business card is going to be a disaster to change the number on.
After a connection is established, try to find out what they like and talk about what you like as well, to find a deeper connection.
Be nice! People notice how you treat other people. If you go for coffee with your date, be nice to the person behind the counter or your server. Tolerate his or her friends (to a degree of course). Smile, remember names, and don't embarrass yourself or your date. The moment you're out of their sight, they're going to talk about you. Don't let your poor behavior or hygiene be the main subject.
Good eye contact shows confidence and assertiveness.
When starting a conversation, have something in mind that you want to talk about - ice breakers like "Hey what's up?" or "What are you drinking" are sure losers. If you're both at a show, then you've already got something in common.
Conversation success tip: Be interested in others and ask lots of questions.
Don't be afraid of rejection. You've got nothing to lose!! What's the worst that could happen? Someone will laugh at you? That's hardly likely. And even if they do, who cares! Just say "Next!" and move on!
Forget "pickup lines". "So, do you come here often?" "Baby I was put on this earth to take you to heaven." Small talk is difficult, but cliches will be an instant passion killer.
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