Here the most common mistakes men make with women during the early stages of dating and beyond. I am not going to pull any punches in this article. Anything less would be a disservice to you as this information could make a real difference in your relationships.
Insist on paying for everything.
In today's world, women are often making almost as much or more money than men do. Therefore, if a woman offers to pay for things from time to time, let her! In fact, you should expect it if she has a good job. If she has children, you are not responsible for compensating her for that fact. The father is responsible for contributing to the support of her children, not you! It's okay to consider that she has children when it comes to money matters, but you're not obligated.
Behave overly eager and overly nice.
Trying real hard to win a woman over when you meet her for the first time never works. It's not like playing a competitive sport. Trying harder doesn't get you to second base and beyond. No matter how much like her and no matter how much you want to start a relationship on that day, you have to stay cool. Like with many sports, you often have to fake a move in the opposite direction in order to score! Here's what mean.
You have to get yourself into a mindset of not being overly concerned if a particular woman responses to you favorably or not. You have to get yourself into the mental state of not caring if she likes you or not. You do this by realizing that it's a numbers game and there must be at least a million other women like her or better than her.
Pressure a woman to have sex before she's ready.
There's no benefit to pressuring a woman to have sex except selfish momentary sexual gratification. Notice I didn't say "sexual fulfillment" as this only happens when both parties are fully willing and involved. If you pressure a woman to have sex before she's ready, she won't enjoy it, she may come to resent you, or she may even come to see that act as rape! Real men do not pressure women to have sex. They wait until she's ready.
Respond to her drama and games.
One of the things I like most about equality in the work place is that as women have gained higher positions and more responsibility they have shed their drama and game playing behavior to a great extend. I am much more attracted to these women than stay at home drama queens. Your best strategy is to not respond to it and move on if she doesn't change course right away!
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