The following dating tips for women are based on research, informal interviews, and personal experience. Most of them are exclusive to women and not applicable for use by men, although they may benefit by reading them.
Proportional courtesy. Order food, drinks, and anything else in an amount equal to what he orders. Men really appreciate this. Many men believe that a woman's behavior in these situations is a reflection of her character.
Save your life story for your autobiography. Don't tell him your whole life story right away. Prolong the mystery. In fact, always try to maintain some degree of anonymity in some area of your personality or life, as it naturally provokes more excitement. Mystery is a mental aphrodisiac!
Comments don't justify. Do not comment on the good looks of another man OR woman regardless whether it is in-person, on a screen, or in a magazine. These comments don't explain your gawking to a man. They just further complicate the issue of loyalty.
The ultimate dating tip! Do not have sex with him on the first date. In fact, don't have sex with him until YOU are ready. During the heat of the moment, men will say things to get sex that they believe are true then, but later when their head clears they often feel completely different. The most important secret that a woman needs to know is that when you have sex with a man on the first date it establishes doubt in a man's mind about your ability to be faithful. It also does nothing to establish any respect. If you resist him, he will respect you for it. The more you resist him the more he will respect you. If he is truly interested in you he will want you more and he will wait patiently until you are ready. If he doesn't wait he was not very interested in you, therefore he's not worth your time. If you want to have the BEST lovemaking experience of your life, become best friends FIRST and then make love. I assure you, it is worth the wait!
Now we move on to the following list of what men want is based research and informal interviews. Although this information is intended for women, men may benefit from reading it as well. Read carefully over and see where you can improve yourself.
What Men Want in a Woman
A woman who shares the same life goals as him.
A woman who is honest and loyal to him.
A woman who is interested in his passions.
A woman who is supportive of his work and passions.
A woman who does not use her period as an excuse.
Now lets look at some common myths about what men want. Prepare for a few surprises here:
Myths About What Men Want
All men want a woman who dresses in short shirts and tight tops. Not true. A small percentage of men must have a woman who frequently wears short shirts. It's true that most men like to see a woman in a dress or shirt every once in a while, but many men enjoy seeing her in a pair of nice fitting jeans just as well.
All men want to have sex on the first date or at least by the third date. Not true. Most men will make several attempts to have sex, but it's not an absolute necessity. Men try to have sex because of physical/sexual need and male pride. It's as if it's their duty as a man to try. Men are often relieved when a women says no because the pressure is off to prove their masculinity. They are also frequently intrigued when a woman says no! Their first instinct is that they have found a quality woman. If a woman gives in too quickly, she's lost the opportunity to gain respect. Her ability to be loyal may come into question as well.
All men will not give a woman what she wants unless she's horrible to him! Not true! A woman who is mean will eventually get her man to build her a house. But a woman who is a princess will inspire her man to build her a castle!
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